Willing to do, and talk about, intimate acts that would make their grandchildren blush

Am I talking about Grandpa and Grandma? Yep, seniors and sex! It seems that sex gets better with age, in some people, whether as a result of experience or newly found youth is something to be determined.

A pioneering US research study has revealed certain traits in seniors and their sex lives:

[....from the most comprehensive sex survey ever done among 57- to 85-year-olds in the United States. Sex and interest in it do fall off when people are in their 70s, but more than a quarter of those up to age 85 reported having sex in the previous year.

And the drop-off has a lot to do with health or lack of a partner, especially for women, the survey found.

The federally funded study, done by respected scientists and published in Thursday’s New England Journal of Medicine, overturns some stereotypical notions that physical pleasure is just a young person’s game.....

However, more than half of those aged 57 to 75 said they gave or received oral sex, as did about a third of 75- to 85-year-olds.

‘Bravo’ says Dr. Ruth
“Bravo that the New England Journal of Medicine is publishing something like that. It’s about time,” said Ruth Westheimer, better known as sexpert Dr. Ruth, who has long counseled seniors on sex....

Some results:

• Sex with a partner in the previous year was reported by 73 percent of people ages 57 to 64; 53 percent of those ages 64 to 75, and 26 percent of people 75 to 85. Of those who were active, most said they did it two to three times a month or more.
• Women at all ages were less likely to be sexually active than men. But they also lacked partners; far more were widowed.
• People whose health was excellent or very good were nearly twice as likely to be sexually active as those in poor or fair health.
• Half of people having sex reported at least one related problem. Most common in men was erection trouble (37 percent); in women, low desire (43 percent), vaginal dryness (39 percent) and inability to have an orgasm (34 percent).
• One out of seven men used Viagra or other substances to improve sex.
• Only 22 percent of women and 38 percent of men had discussed sex with a doctor since age 50.....

Why do this research? Sex is an important indicator of health, said Georgeanne Patmios of the National Institute on Aging, the study’s main funder.

Sexual problems can be a warning sign of diabetes, infections, cancer or other health woes. Untreated sex issues can lead to depression and social withdrawal, and people may even stop taking needed medications because of sexual side effects, the researchers wrote.

Some of them did a landmark study of sexual habits in younger people a decade ago, but little is known about X-rated behaviors beyond Generation X.

“This subject has been taboo for so long that many older people haven’t even talked to their spouses about their sexual problems, let alone a physician,” said the lead author, Dr. Stacy Tesser Lindau, a University of Chicago gynecologist......]

I GUESS THAT QUALIFIES TO BE CALLED AN 'EYE OPENER'. By the way, I didn't know that Dr. Ruth was still alive and kicking, since the days of Joan Rivers on The Tonight Show, courtesy of Johnny Carson.

I guess she's been right all along - '....sex is good...' - and there is still hope for the rest of us as we approach the 'senior' category in a decade or two!